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I don’t even know where to begin with our George to the Rescue story. Jimmy and I were watching an episode one night because we LOVE the show and at the end George always says if you know someone in need of a rescue to write in. The kids were in bed and we were having a glass of wine and thought, why not! Let’s write in and see what happens. Jimmy and I are the type of people that love doing things for other people, so wanted to make sure that if we did get picked that our #audreystory would be told and know that if this happened, it could help millions!
Now keep in mind I lost my job last year and have been struggling to find my new career. It turns out that losing my job was the best thing that could have happened to me because I got to spend this whole year with my girls and I know I would never get to recreate some of these memories. We also know that once my severance stops (YIKES, it just did!) it will be harder to do the things we need to do to accommodate Audrey’s needs. I also learned that my heart is in doing something to help families with Special Needs children. I got my certification to be an Ongoing Service Coordinator for the Early Intervention program here in NY and hopefully help families in need.
Now back to #audreystory, being that she has microcephaly, which has been in the news every day because of the Zika Virus, I know that we could help millions of people. When Audrey was diagnosed 4 years ago there were very few stories on microcephaly and no one ever knew what I was talking about when they asked what Audrey had. So when we got the news and googled it, we nearly had a breakdown. There were all negative stories out there which inspired me to write my 2013 post that you have all read here. I have always said I do not want any parent to go through what we did when we got the diagnosis of microcephaly. We wanted to post a positive story and some direction on what you can do when your child is diagnosed with Microcephaly.
If you have read my prior posts, Microcephaly basically means a “small head”. So you can be perfectly fine and just have a small hat size or you can have Developmental Delays, which vary dramatically in every case. I know not one Microcephaly case that is exactly the same. So what do you do when your child is diagnosed with Microcephaly and severe developmental delays and the doctors tell you that they may not walk, talk, read, write, play or do anything that your “typical” child may do? First thing you do is get a second opinion and the next thing you do is surround yourself with positive doctors, family and friends that will help you have faith and believe that this is all going to be okay! Is it hard, yes! Is it discouraging sometimes, yes! Do you just want to breakdown and cry sometimes and have someone tell you it will be okay? YES! So that is why we want to help!
Look how far Audrey has come from her diagnosis 4 years ago! She was told she has a 1 in 7 chance of having mental retardation, cerebral palsy and seizures. Well we look at it as if she has a 6 out of 7 chance of not having those and we like those odds alot better!
So #1, get your child into early Intervention ASAP! This will only help your child and accept the services being offered, learn from the therapist and carry over their teachings when they are not with your child. Look into different additional therapies like, Intense PT, Aqua Therapy, Hippotherapy, slow treadmill therapy, music therapy, therapy dogs, sensory toys, anything that will help stimulate your child. And most importantly is BELIEVE in your child and have FAITH that they will walk, talk, run and play etc! Audrey is now a little over 4 years old and is walking and doing so well in her pre school at the Carman Road School! She is our inspiration and motivation every single day. I know that when she is older and graduating from college she will give a speech that will motivate any person out there. She can do it and so can you! Believe!!!
Now back to George! We wrote in a story similar to the above and spoke about the challenges that we have in our house. For example, Audrey still sleeps in a crib and she is 4, she is getting bigger and it is not that easy to carry her down the stairs to give her a bath and the basement where her play area is just ins’t safe enough for her to play. So George read our story, believed in us that we can tell this story together and help people diagnosed with not only microcephaly, but any developmental delay. Audrey’s story is inspirational and I hope you find that too!
So the producers came to our house and said that they were interviewing us to show to the NBC executives and George and that we were in the running to be picked. We were so excited, but a bit hesitant because we didn’t want to get our hopes up. Before your knew it George busts through the door telling us we were picked! We still didn’t believe it then and I am still finding it hard to believe as the reveal hasn’t happened yet but I am so hopeful that this will send a positive message of hope and that there are good people out there like George and his whole crew that get to help families in need!
So what can I say to George and his crew? Thank you from the bottom of our hearts, we will be eternally grateful and love that you are apart of #audreystory and my hope is that Audrey will Thank you herself in person one day soon! We love you George!!!
Please watch our George To The Rescue episode on Saturday April 22nd at 9:30am and on the Today show, Tuesday, March 28th between 9-10 with Sheinelle Jones. Both on NBC.

Yesterday, complete strangers surprised Audrey for her 4th birthday with a custom tricycle! This was made possible by a wonderful organization called; Share the Voice and the Malone Family. Jimmy and I were overcome with emotions as we were completely surprised! Audrey’s face says it all, you can see the Facebook Live Video on my page. We cannot thank Mrs. Malone enough. Her daughters, Jamie and Paige will forever live on through Audrey Paige’s smile every time she is on that bike. It is not just a coincidence that Audrey’s middle name is Paige and my husband’s name is James, we know you picked the right family and we are so deeply grateful and will forever remember this amazing gift you gave us.
We have so much faith and I know that this bike will help Audrey to grow stronger and when she starts talking, we will have her Thank you in person. For now know that your daughters and your whole family will forever be in our prayers. God Bless! And to everyone reading this, please take the time to find out more about Share the Voice at www.sharethevoice.org

I decided to write an update to my Audrey Story written over 2 years ago. With all the news about microcephaly and the Zika virus, I can’t help but give an update to all the scared parents out there. I know because I was one of them when my pediatrician told me my Audrey had microcephaly. How could that be I thought! I had a great pregnancy, C section delivery, she was my first baby and you are telling me there is an issue ? That is not what any new mom needs to hear. So after googling microcephaly, because who ever heard of that until now! I wrote a story a few years ago on my daughter and all of the positive, amazing things about her to give some moms out there hope.
Let me first say they do not know if I had the Zika virus, that wasn’t even a thought in the the US 3 years ago. But when I look back I was in Puerto Rico for our 1 year anniversary and I was pregnant but didn’t know it at the time. I remember getting bit by mosquitos so much down there but also back at home and used to say that mosquitos love pregnant women! And the doctors told me I must have been exposed to a virus while I was pregnant because it is not genetic. Makes me wonder now….
The message I want to send is one of hope and positivity. The most important thing a parent can do if their child is diagnosed with microcephaly is to get your child into Early Intervention (EI) as soon as possible. It is available for 0-3 year olds and is a life saver. This will become routine and you will learn so much from all of these amazing therapists . Learn from them and work with your child, the earlier you start the better! Read everything you can on different therapies, like hippo therapy, slow treadmill therapy, intense physical therapy, etc. Network with different families in your neighborhood and online support groups. There is a whole world out there of special families that were given these special children for a reason. Take help when people offer it to you and don’t lose yourself in the whole process, make time for your spouse and take care of yourself. Spread the word of what microcephaly is, there are so many different spectrums of it and we can all help each other. Most of all, be positive and celebrate all the little things that your child does, the clapping of hands, hugs, first steps and hold my breath…the word Mama! I am still waiting for that one but the day I hear it, you will see tears of joy!!!
Audrey is 3 now and is in a special school and has amazing therapists. She has come so far from her EI days but if it wasn’t for her PT, OT, Speech and Special Ed teacher should would have been so much further behind. They were a part of our family and I can’t thank them enough. Audrey is walking so much better now and you can see it in her face how determined she is! I think it is because she wants to keep up with her baby sister! I know Vivienne will look after Audrey and protect her out there!
Audrey walks, talks, runs and plays in my dreams so I know this will happen one day. She has taught us patience and appreciation of all the little things in life and I am forever grateful that we have been blessed with such a happy, smart, perfect little girl.
So please, all parents, cherish these moments, teach your children to be kind when others are different and never give up hope. Your children will surprise you!

Any parents out there who have just had their child diagnosed with Microcephaly are probably pretty scared right about now if you have read anything on the Internet. I want to be the first parent to write something positive to give some of those scared parents out there hope, here is our story:

Audrey Paige was a full term baby, born at 39 weeks, weighing in at 6lbs 15 oz and 19 inches long. I had a great pregnancy, was monitored weekly from my high risk doctor and OB/GYN. That means I had a sonogram every week. All sonograms and tests were perfect and she got a 9 out of 10 on the APGAR test when she was born.

At 3 months I noticed her head was smaller than some of my friends kids heads so I brought this up to my pediatrician who said her head is 2 standard deviations below the norm, in the bottom 5% and I should see a neurologist for “microcephaly”. Being the type A personality that I am, I ran home and googled microcephaly and read every story on it, most of the stories being negative and I cried my eyes out, called my husband and told him he had to come home.

We made an appointment with our first neurologist who recommended a CT Scan ASAP, which scared the hell out of me. We had the CT scan the same day and results came back negative for the Sutures closing and Craniosyntosis. Me and my husband went out and celebrated our 2^nd wedding anniversary that night and were thrilled, we thought that meant she didn’t have microcephaly.

As she turned 4 months I had to get her registered for the Day Care at my office and our pediatrician wrote that she was positive for microcephaly on her medical paperwork. I didn’t understand and decided to seek out another opinion. Luckily I work for a great company and had my cousin marrying the daughter of the chief pediatric neurologist at a well renowned hospital and they set me up with 2 appointments in Boston to meet with 2 chief Pediatric Neurologist.

We flew up to Boston for the day and did bloodwork and had the evaluations, both of which recommended an MRI. Her bloodwork came back negative for any infections that may cause microcephaly. And one doctor said she had a 1 out of 7 chance to have seizures, cerebral palsy or mental retardation. So we said to the doctor, “That means she has a 6 out of 7 chance that she doesn’t have any of those!”

The Boston doctors set me up with the Chief Pediatric Neurologist at a well-known NYC hospital where we had Audrey’s MRI. Turned out I grew up with the pediatric nurse that was taking care of us that day, (Someone up there is looking down on us for sure!) and she eased my nervousness and I can’t thank her enough for that day.

The MRI came back saying that she was missing part of her Cerebellum and had a “possible” Dandy Walker Variant. From past experience, I did NOT look that up online and just asked my doctor what that means. He said that the missing part of the cerebellum and the microcephaly would have been diagnosed within my pregnancy at 20 weeks. Remember I had a sonogram a week my whole pregnancy. I went back to my high risk doctor and OB/GYN who both showed me the Cerebellum in my sonogram pictures. I even remember saying during one of my visits, “Wow she looks smart already!” So none of this makes sense to us and we kept pressing for answers. We then go see a Geneticist and the results of the genetic blood work came back negative. So the conclusion the doctors tell me is that either I was exposed to a virus while I was pregnant or something happened post pregnancy, to this day it is still a mystery.

The only recommendations all 3 of my Chief Neurologists have is for her to start in Early Intervention and that she will “Write her own book” They said she may not be sitting up by the time she is 1, she may not be crawling by the time she is 2. Audrey was sitting up at 7 months old, crawling at 13 months old and she is now 21 months old and can stand and is almost there!

Moral of the story is: Be positive, don’t take no for an answer or be told that your child may or may not be able to do something. Get your child in Early Intervention as soon as possible, it is a life saver! Be an activist for your child and you will get the services you need to help your child develop at their own pace. They will eventually get there and having your child a little developmentally delayed is nothing to be ashamed of. Also, don’t deny it if there is something “not right”. You are the Mom and trust your instincts, even if other people “just don’t see it”. YOU know best, you are the Mom! Families that are in denial wait too long and get the services later rather than sooner and wish they started earlier. The sooner the better! Audrey has been in PT since she was 6 months old, Speech/feeding & OT since she was 11 months old and just started Special Ed services. All of these wonderful Services are available to your children and should be take advantage of and these teachers are the most loving caring people in the world. My whole family has learned so much from watching these sessions and working with our daughter. She is the happiest little girl and works so hard during all of her therapy sessions. She has come a long way and I cannot wait for the rest of her story, because I know it will be a good one!
Hopefully this article will help some parents know that there is hope and if you are positive and believe in your faith and children, they can do amazing things, the brain is a mysterious organ and the parts that do work, can make up for the ones that are lacking. So never give up hope, you never know!

Any comments/questions, I am happy to help, if I can make just one mom not cry, I feel like I have done my job. taramccarton@gmail.com #Audreystory